The Go To Gay Guy, Dean Hervochon

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I’m a “Life Style Enhancer” —  I’ve paid attention and it has served me and my friends well!  Being a gay kid growing up in “trailer community” in Southern New Mexico, it was imperative for me to be observant of all that was going on around me — I wanted to live!  That early “survival training” imprinted me and I’ve used it every day of my life.  I’ve paid attention to details, nuances and appreciate “what works”  —and what doesn’t.  I’ve learned a lot of things…the hard way.  The really hard way!  Believe me, I wish someone had shared their hard-fought wisdom and style me years ago.  That’s why I started this blog. essay topics For you.

I’ve got a knack for looking at something and asking myself: How can it be better or improved? Can I make it more useful? More beautiful? Sexier? Can I get that cheaper and not sacrifice quality?  What is going to be the problem if I do that? My expertise and point of view has been shaped by many fine people, both straight and gay.  We usually don’t learn from ourselves.  Enjoy the blog!  Let me know what you think!  I mean that!

Finally, if you want to post something on this blog, contact me!  I’d love to have guest bloggers who have something of value to share.  You don’t have to be gay or straight, you’ve got to have something to share with others that will make their lives “more fabulous!”

—Dean—                              dean@thegotogayguy.com

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Megan May 3, 2011 at 11:17 am

Love your site! My friend Jeremy told me about it, so I dove right in. Your advice is fantastic and well-written and topics are interesting and applicable to so many people. Keep up the amazing work!


Dean Hervochon May 10, 2011 at 3:54 pm

Thanks for visiting the site! Hope you find lots of great things on here and if there’s anything you want me to write about, let me know. Thanks Again, Dean


Gretchen May 6, 2011 at 9:20 am

Just had to add you to my favorites. I really enjoyed reading your website this morning!


Dean Hervochon May 10, 2011 at 3:55 pm

Hey Gretchen!
Thanks for finding me and thanks for the kind words. I’m glad you’re enjoying my blog. I just added a “subscribe” button on the site so if you want to get the posts as I post them, they’ll come right to your email. Thanks again for visiting. Dean


suzie May 16, 2011 at 2:22 pm

What does your site do? I mean, are you a courier service, maybe you should have in your header that you are not a delivery man because “go to” means you get things right? I think if you want to be successful you should make that clear and change the name of your business because I don’t understand. It does, as you know, only matter if little old me understands that you are not a delivery man.


Dean Hervochon June 14, 2011 at 11:45 am

Oh Suzie, I won’t be changing the name of my website because you don’t understand what it means….yet! You’ll get it! I’m sure you’ll figure it out. And yes, I deliver! Keep coming back! Thanks, Dean


Alisa June 10, 2011 at 9:52 am

Dean, I am so PROUD of you and this site. It’s amazing and so are you. I am raving about this site and will be telling my friends about it as well!



Dean Hervochon June 14, 2011 at 11:46 am

Alisa, You are TOOOOO kind. Thanks for the kind words. Keep coming back and if you want me to blog about anything, let me know. Big Hug, Dean


Angie June 29, 2011 at 3:17 pm

Hi Dean,
I was just close to buy numerous products from Alpha Hydrox according to your dermatologists recommendation, however, when I checked with the safe cosmetic data base I was shocked to see the hazard level of 4-8 which is moderate to high and really concerning? What is your thought about this? Do you know of any safer alternatives? Thank you.


Christi July 3, 2011 at 10:44 am

Just found you recently due to the Oprah/Lancer products-love your suggestions..and its done in such style!
I have an inexpensive way to wow those who love orchids. I design jeweled orchid & plant support stakes. How is it that we have not thought of embellishing our plants before this? Just when you thought that orchid plant could not be any prettier. A great gift as well. Remember, “Life is too short to stake your plant with a simple wooden stick.” Check it out. http://www.botanistix.com
Keep up the good work!


The Berkes July 11, 2011 at 7:38 pm

How do I make your website my home site?


Maricel July 26, 2011 at 9:49 pm

I’m so glad I searched dr. lancers products and didn’t go and buy them because I found this site instead! Thanks for the cheaper options! Your site rocks! I was just curious, do you get paid for promoting these products? If not ,You should! Thanks again, you saved me some serious dough.


Susan Hayes August 10, 2011 at 6:56 pm

I love your website!
Your advice is amazing, as well as extremely helpful.
I have a request that you may or may not be able to provide.
I am looking for a 5-6 inch black plastic hair claw.
I have looked everywhere, and thought you might be able to help me.
Thank you for your time.


Lauren August 23, 2011 at 9:37 pm

Hi Dean,
I love your blog, and yes I found it when searching for lancer skin care, ha!! So…I was seduced by a significant sale on CVS brand beauty products while waiting for a prescription. I bought the knock-off version of Roc retinols. I have been trying to find retinol concentrations of generics vs. leading brands available on store shelves, and keep coming up empty.
Any input or insight would be great. I saved a ton of cash, but am I just kidding myself into thinking I have the same product?
Thank you!


Susan October 6, 2011 at 7:02 pm

Hi Dean
I love your website!
What is the name of the Chicago diner you say is fabulous in your pancake maker video?
Thank you for your time.



Mark October 20, 2011 at 1:11 pm

Hey Dean,

Cool site. You are quite the entrepreneur. You are a little far from Chaparral …not in Kansas anymore. Please drop me a note on my email rather than facebook. I have some information for you that you may find important.



Chris February 2, 2012 at 1:29 pm

Hi Dean!
You’re blog is ‘da bomb! Super great content and funny to boot! Your personality and attention to detail comes shining thru! Keep it going! Love love love it!
Chris from NJ


Ima Jean (Edwards) Simmons February 5, 2012 at 1:46 pm

Hey Dean,
Don’t know if you remeber me- it’s Ima Jean- from that “Little trailer town” in Chaparral, New Mexico? Nick Cortese said you had twitter, or e-mailed or something to him and he was asking me if I had remembered you! Yes- I remember- a prom date, and high school memories??? He told me about your web site- thought I would say hello! Jean


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